Kindness, Touch and Disrespected Boundaries: My Experiences in Shkodër, Albania

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Each one of these incidincies on their own could have been insignificant little happenings; however, their totality opened my eyes to the ways in which we unknowingly and consciously hurt/harm and/or cause uneasiness in others.

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